Overcoming Emotional Eating and Self-Sabotage

Many women feel trapped in a relentless cycle of emotional eating and self-sabotage. They often grapple with anxiety, body image issues, and the overwhelming pressure of conflicting dietary advice. Despite numerous attempts at diets, exercise routines, and wellness practices, the elusive lasting change seems out of reach. My blog explores these initial struggles and outlines my unique coaching program to help women rewire their brains, develop a positive relationship with food, and reclaim their confidence and health.


Initial Struggles and Challenges

Women facing emotional eating and self-sabotage often encounter the following issues:

Feeling Trapped in Emotional Eating

Many women feel imprisoned by their eating habits, turning to food as a coping mechanism for emotional distress. This often leads to a cycle of guilt and shame, exacerbating their struggle.

Anxiety and Body Image Issues

Anxiety frequently accompanies body image issues, creating a vicious cycle where stress and poor self-esteem feed off each other, leading to more emotional eating.

Conflicting Dietary Advice

The abundance of conflicting dietary advice can leave women feeling confused and overwhelmed. They doubt their ability to make healthy choices and often feel paralyzed by indecision.

Low Self-Esteem and Self-Worth

Years of battling with body image and eating habits can erode self-esteem. Women may feel unworthy and incapable of achieving their health goals.

Failed Attempts at Change

Despite trying various diets, exercise routines, and wellness practices, many women have not found lasting change. This often leads to feelings of hopelessness and frustration.

Sarah’s Journey

Before: Feeling Trapped and Hopeless

Sarah came to me feeling utterly trapped in her cycle of emotional eating. Her daily life was dominated by anxiety and negative thoughts about her body. She often sought comfort in food, only to be plagued by guilt and shame afterward. Despite trying multiple diets and exercise routines, Sarah felt overwhelmed by the conflicting advice she encountered. Her self-esteem was at an all-time low, and she doubted her ability to achieve lasting change.

Through the Program: Step-by-Step Transformation

Rewiring the Brain

One of the first steps in Sarah’s transformation was learning to rewire her brain. Initially, Sarah felt like her brain was her worst enemy, constantly fighting against her desire to make healthy choices. She learned techniques to shift her mindset through tailored coaching sessions, gradually aligning her thoughts with her health goals.

Developing a Positive Relationship with Food

Sarah had always associated food with guilt and anxiety. Through mindful eating practices and personalized guidance, she started to see food as nourishment rather than a source of shame. She began enjoying her meals without the cloud of negative emotions, which led to healthier choices and a balanced diet.

Boosting Self-Esteem and Confidence

Sarah struggled with negative self-talk and low self-worth. We worked on building her confidence through affirmations, self-reflection exercises, and celebrating small victories. Over time, Sarah’s view of herself transformed. She began to feel proud of her body and confident in her decisions.

Gaining Control Over Emotional Eating

Emotional eating had once felt like an uncontrollable compulsion for Sarah. Sarah learned to manage her emotions without turning to food by identifying her emotional triggers and developing healthy coping strategies. This newfound control was empowering and instrumental in her journey.

Achieving Sustainable Weight Loss

Unlike her previous attempts at weight loss, Sarah’s progress was steady and sustainable. The focus was not on drastic dieting but on consistent, healthy changes. As a result, Sarah began to lose weight naturally, feeling more energetic and healthier each day.

Improving Physical and Mental Health

Sarah noticed significant improvements in her physical and mental health. Her digestion improved, her energy levels increased, and her anxiety dropped. I used a holistic approach to address her well-being, leading to these positive changes.

Enhancing Overall Quality of Life

With her new habits and mindset, Sarah’s overall quality of life improved. She felt more joy, satisfaction, and fulfillment in her daily activities. The overwhelming sense of being stuck had dissipated, replaced by a sense of control and happiness.

Strengthening Intuition and Self-Awareness

Sarah had previously doubted her ability to listen to her body’s needs. I taught her to trust her body’s signals and respond appropriately, leading to better health outcomes and a deeper connection with her needs.

Feeling Supported and Empowered

Feeling support was crucial for Sarah. I gave her the support and understanding she needed to stay motivated. I gave her Voxer and email access between sessions to help her with accountability and celebrate her daily wins in overcoming day-to-day obstacles. 

Achieving a Harmonious Balance

Ultimately, Sarah achieved a harmonious balance between her mind, body, and spirit. She finally felt more ease and peace,  marking a profound transformation in her life.

Sarah’s New Beginning

By the end of her journey, Sarah had transformed into a confident, empowered woman in control of her health and well-being. She embraced a healthier, happier lifestyle characterized by a positive relationship with food, improved self-esteem, sustainable weight loss, and a harmonious balance in life. This profound change enhanced her physical health and brought about a deep emotional and psychological shift, enabling her to love her body, trust herself, and live joyfully.


Overcoming emotional eating and self-sabotage is a challenging journey, but with the proper support and strategies, it is entirely possible. Through my coaching program, women can rewire their brains, develop a positive relationship with food, and reclaim their self-esteem and health. This transformation leads to a more fulfilling and joyful life where they feel empowered, confident, and in control of their well-being.

Frequently Asked Questions

What causes emotional eating? Emotional eating is often triggered by stress, boredom, loneliness, and other negative emotions. It is a coping mechanism to manage feelings and can become a habit over time.

How can I stop feeling guilty about eating? Developing a mindful approach to eating, recognizing your body’s needs, and eliminating negative self-talk can help reduce guilt and promote a healthier relationship with food.

Can coaching help with anxiety and body image issues? Yes, coaching can provide the support and strategies needed to address anxiety and body image issues, helping you build self-esteem and a positive self-image.

What are some healthy coping strategies for emotional eating? Healthy coping strategies include physical activity, journaling, talking to a friend, practicing mindfulness, and engaging in hobbies that bring joy and fulfillment.

Is sustainable weight loss achievable without dieting? Sustainable weight loss is attainable through consistent, healthy lifestyle changes, including balanced eating, regular physical activity, and positive mental health practices.

How long does it take to see results from the coaching program? The time it takes to see results varies for each individual. However, many women notice positive changes in their mindset and habits within a few weeks of starting the program.


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About Denise Morrison

I’m a licensed and certified health care professional with over 30 years experience in healthcare, wellness, fitness, physical therapy, yoga, NLP, TLT, hypnosis and mind-body practices.

During my career I’ve seen too many women struggle with self-doubt and fear leftover from their past, making them stuck in their health, happiness, and success.

This is why it’s my passion to help you discover and release any of your limiting beliefs, old stories, and unconscious obstacles so you can finally know, trust and value yourself and confidently make decisive action to create your most fulfilling life.

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