Does your self-talk sabotage you?

 

Does your self-talk support or sabotage you?

 
Did you know that your inner dialogue (aka the “voice in your head”) is one of the biggest influencers on your confidence and self-esteem?
I used to have the WORST scary, negative self-talk and I wouldn’t go out in public and interact with people.
 
I was sure that I they all knew my deep dark secrets.
 
Thank GOODNESS I learned how to release those negative emotions and limiting stories that kept me down!!
 
 
 

Time to check in!​

 

If your self-talk is positive and empowering that’s fantastic! That didn’t happen by accident. You developed a HABIT of speaking to yourself that way, and your life likely reflects that positivity.
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But if your self-talk tends to be on the negative side (which is the case for a LOT of people), I’ve got some coaching tips that can help you turn it around.
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The first thing to know is that you are NOT your thoughts. That little voice in your head can say a LOT of things that aren’t always true.
That internal noise is called “thought chatter” and it’s a process that happens when your brain isn’t otherwise engaged.
TIP: Think of it as a body process like digestion or breathing. It’s just a byproduct of your brain doing its job and that means you can gain control over it!
 
 

4 Tips to Turn Your Thought Chatter Around

 
 
Here are some things you can do to turn that negative thought chatter into something empowering that helps you reach your goals (instead of derailing you) …
RECOGNIZE IT – the first step is to be aware that it’s even there in the first place! Pay attention to yours today – how often does it show up?
CALL IT OUT – As soon as you notice the negative self-talk happening, shut it down! Don’t criticize yourself for having the chatter. Instead, think, “I hear you in there – and I’m not interested in your nonsense TODAY!” You can even give it a name if you want – like Negative Nelly or Cynical Cindy, or Pessimistic Patty.
REDIRECT IT – If you notice yourself falling into negative thought patterns, turn those thoughts around fast.
Example: let’s say you are feeling stressed from work, and your internal chatter is telling you to skip your workout because you’re too tired and grouchy.
Turn that around by telling yourself your workout will lift you OUT of this mood and give you the exact boost you need (because it actually WILL!).
REPLACE IT – This is a proactive approach. Instead of redirecting the negative self-talk AFTER it starts, come up with some positive thoughts that have meaning to you. Then, repeat them to yourself several times a day.
Ideas: “I am confident and unstoppable.” “I feel strong and motivated.” “I’m really proud of how well I’m doing with my fitness routine.”
Negative thoughts are not something you should ever be ashamed of because we all have them.

The key is to become aware of them

Let me help you learn how to replace them with ideas and thoughts that help you build CONFIDENCE and feel good about yourself.

You do not have to tear yourself down and beat yourself up.

Life is too short to let negative self-talk lie to you and prevent you from living the life you are MEANT TO LIVE.
 
 
Don’t you agree?
 

Schedule your Free 30 Minute Discovery Session if you know that your self-talk needs a TUNE UP!

 

 

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About Denise Morrison

I’m a licensed and certified health care professional with over 30 years experience in healthcare, wellness, fitness, physical therapy, yoga, NLP, TLT, hypnosis and mind-body practices.

During my career I’ve seen too many women struggle with self-doubt and fear leftover from their past, making them stuck in their health, happiness, and success.

This is why it’s my passion to help you discover and release any of your limiting beliefs, old stories, and unconscious obstacles so you can finally know, trust and value yourself and confidently make decisive action to create your most fulfilling life.

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